Hey Leina,

I’m sorry this happening to you. It’s very difficult to breakup with someone who you invested a lot of yourself into, but here’s the thing, he probably did you a huge favour. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you and help you bring out the potential in you. The other part is people change, who he was two years ago to who he is now, is probably not even close to the person you want to be with. Relationships I know take work, but if you are fighting a lot, that is a lot of work. Relationships help us grow and figure out what we want in our lives and in ourselves. Take the opportunity now to work on yourself. He’s in the past, leave him there. I’m not saying you can’t reminisce, but don’t dwell on it.

Not going to lie, it’s going to be hard to stop the urge, but with each passing day, it’ll get easier. If you find yourself wanting to contact him, contact a friend you can rely on to help you fight the urge. Go out with friends and family, go explore and discover the things you like to do. Now’s your chance to practice self-love and take care of yourself. Do you really want to be with someone who wasn’t there for you when you needed him the most?

I know the wound is still so fresh, but overtime you will heal, just be patient with yourself. It’s been almost a year since I had my heartbreak, and there are some days when I think back and wonder, but then again I remind myself that I am in a good place now. 🙂

There is someone out there for you, the universe is bringing you one step closer to that person.

Take care and I hope you find some peace.

Hugs,

Lucia