Thank you for the feedback. The main things are our pasts that are keeping us form it which is why I included that. He does have children but everything is fairly well with them so that isn’t an issue in this.
I feel the reason I want it, when I do think of it, is my upbringing. All other reasons besides that seem irrelevant to me (as you said, we are already married – minus the social portion). Since I do go back and forth I will definitely have to take my time and meditate (the best thoughts come up when you clear your mind!) to see if the heart and the mind connect.

Again, thank you for the feedback and the different perspective!
~Angela