Nice update. As I mentioned I am very much in the same boat. However, everyone has said leave her alone. I have done that at much personal pain. They also say, I need to be happy and comfortable with myself before I can even expect her to think about me again. Then if she doesn’t I am not screwed again so I understand the pain. I have been using the opportunity to work to put her out of my mind which isn’t very easy for me to do.
Good luck to you,
Fred