In all honesty Stacy I gave her access to my phone kind of from the start when she mentioned trust issues. I really had nothing to hide.  I just didn’t know how much that would bite me in the butt later on.

I mean in all honesty if the situation was reversed. I really wouldn’t of cared what dating sites she subscribed to prior to our relationship.  If someone is going to cheat I mean a deleting that stuff won’t really matter. Bottom line is. It is a control tactic.  Even though I gave her a lot of control it was never enough.