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    Jen
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    A couple of weeks ago, I had a medical physical that showed I am at risk for diabetes. I have made some changes in my dietary habits (albeit small) and I am drinking more water. What I know that will help me to get to where I need to be is the source of my fear: exercise. It is not the thought of exercising that gets me, it is the signing up for a gym membership (very cheap and the location is literally right down the street from where I live). Everytime I go to the website or even think about stopping to sign up, I am overtaken with anxiety. Even now as I type about it, my heart is racing. I thought the fear came from being asthmatic but I have an inhaler. I thought it was money, but the amount of money I will spend in nothing compared to the money I will have to spend if I do become a diabetic. What is wrong with me? I know this is something that is necessary for my health. The bad thing about it is I have done this before, going to a gym in the wee hours of the morning so I can start my day off right and have even traveled farther to get there. So why now is it so difficult to just go, sign up, and start again?

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    Mark
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    Hi Jen,
    I wonder if this is a trigger for something else from your past? You may want to explore this anxiety.

    In the meantime, walking is one of the better exercises. You can do that in any weather, anywhere, at anytime with little equipment (just good walking shoes/sneakers and outerwear for the weather).

    Start off small and enjoy your surroundings.

    It is even better if you have a walking buddy and there are exercise websites/social media sites where you share your daily exercise accomplishments so you can be accountable as well as seeing progress.
    http://www.blogher.com/6-ways-hold-yourself-accountable-fitness-routine
    http://www.mapmyfitness.com/
    http://www.onlinefitnesslog.com/
    http://www.justwalk.com/

    Plus there is that home video approach where you can get a yoga or other kinds of exercise DVD and do it at home.

    Good luck,
    Mark

    #52304
    Jen
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    Update:
    I finally got to the root of why I was afraid to exercise. During the previous time, I was working out with someone I would have considered a friend but the friendship ended shortly after. After much contemplation and forgiveness to myself and my former friend, I have started my fitness plan. I have joined a gym and I have been working out for nearly a week. I am finding I am actually enjoying going to the gym early in the morning and doing something to take care of my body and to help me with my stress.

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