Hi all~ Well, I’m in an eight year marriage and it’s been pretty rocky the entire time. There were red flags when we were dating but I egnored them. Now married with still a child at home, I come to realize that I’m not with a person who I’m pretty sure, isn’t going to be someone who I will grow old with. We know splitting is in our cards. My soul knows this and it’s just a matter of time. My husband often brings up that he’s ready to divorce whenever I’m ready. The only thing we have really is the sex. We still have chemistry but can’t communicate worth a darn and never have. I’m not ready to end things and I’m pretty sure he isn’t either, even though he says that he wants to when we get into a big argument. As of now, he’s not taken any real big steps to start that process. My question is this, is it time wasted if you know you’re not with the right person in life?

Ann~