Dear community of Tiny Buddha,

I am a bit exhausted, that the same things are repeating in my life concerning partners. Since 12 years I would like to have a partner (with the same values like mine) by my side but again and again men are leaving me and I am so tired of it.

My lifestyle might be a bit challenging over the last years (changing my work location and often my employer at least twice a year worldwide) but I would stay for love in each country.

This year was the first time after a few years, a man wanted to be seriously with me together, a good man, but I did not fall in love. I fell for someone who of course did not want anything serious (which he told me at the beginning) and after one month he left. I wonder why I attract people like that, when I wish to start something serious.

Just would like to have a partner in my life and I see so much happiness around me with my colleagues and I just would like to enjoy also a love life after travelling all over the world and encountering so much beauty. I am longing for a real social life (be invited home, going to dinner with friends and a partner, going to Birthday Partners,a partner who is really interested in me as a person …) normal staff I have not had in years.

Maybe you have a little advise, how I could change this pattern. I think I have quite an ok body and much more important I am a good, reliable and fun person to be with with a big heart.

I would be thankful for a little advise or mantra chanting I should do, to harmonize…

Thank you very much.
Leonita