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  • December 3, 2016 at 1:22 am #121792
    vince
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    Recently, i liked this girl and she liked me too. We were in a relationship.Everything was going very great. One day, my girlfriend’s parents found out that we were dating.The parents didnt let me date her. They dont even allow me to hang out with her anymore.Her phone was confiscated and so i have no ways of contacting her. I keep thinking about her and cant stop thinking about my studies.Plus, In a few days,there will be mid year examinations.I cant and dont feel like studying.I keep crying even though i am a man. Any advices?

    December 3, 2016 at 10:40 am #121817
    Anonymous
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    Dear vinlee:

    It is okay for a man to cry. Men feel pain just as deeply as women do.

    How old is your ex girlfriend?

    anita

    December 3, 2016 at 3:21 pm #121831
    vince
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    she is 17

    December 3, 2016 at 8:29 pm #121851
    Anonymous
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    Dear vinlee:

    She is 17, living with her parents. I don’t know what country you live in, what culture, and I wonder if your parents can talk to her parents and make it possible for you to see her under her parent’ supervision?

    Do you know why her parents reacted the way they did?

    anita

    December 4, 2016 at 12:06 am #121858
    Trent
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    Dear vinlee,

    I saw and read your problem. I was 15 when she was 18. We liked each other after meeting on a camping trip. When we parted we stayed in contact by phone. (no cell phones back then).
    After many long distant calls to her, her mom got on the phone with me. She asked me to forget her because she was too much older than me. I was told to stop calling. Need I say my heart was broken. She never once tried to reach out to me.
    That was a young age for me causing me to feel simply terrible. It is said “If you love something, set it free”
    Stick to passing your grades for now. Set this aside and move on. If the young lady is serious you should here from her. For now, pass your tests. You got this.

    Phil

    December 13, 2016 at 12:53 am #122581
    vince
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    dear anita,
    i dont know why the parents reacted that way.It isnt possible to do that.

    December 13, 2016 at 12:55 am #122582
    vince
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    dear anita,
    i have a feeling the parents didnt let me date her is because i am not that good looking and also not as clever as her..

    December 13, 2016 at 11:06 am #122618
    Anonymous
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    Dear vinlee:

    Since it is not possible for your parents to talk to her parents and her parents will not allow her to see you, and she is a minor and living with her parents, dependent on them, unfortunately, there is nothing you can do, nothing that will be successful.

    If you think that the reason her parents rejected you is because you are not “that good looking” – other than dressing better and keeping yourself well groomed, there is nothing you can do about that either.

    If you believe that you are not good looking, then, there is something you can do about that- eat better, exercise, keep yourself well groomed and dressed neatly.

    And if you believe that you are not clever enough, there is something you can do about that too: learn from your life experiences, get curious.

    anita

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