So, i did not really answer her because I was caught off guard. We were talking about her relationship with her partner about that time. She sounded frustrated and I felt like what she was telling me happened to me and my husband when we had a huge fight years ago. I could not answer. What she asked me was I happy in my marriage life? She told me she is not married yet because if she gets married, she only want to marry once. And she told me, while I am married, it is hard for me to get out from that. she knows what had happen to me and my husband before. But anyway, we have this co worker. He is younger than me. I don’t know now that i pay attention to him. Before, I did not really care. But I just notice he keeps looking for me and asked me one day what flavor of a cupcake I like. He started touching me to let me know he is saying goodbye for the night. He knows I am married, I know he has a gf but lately he is on my mind. I feel sadness because, I have never felt this much attention now from my husband. I am not sure if I need to tell my husband or just let it slide for now because I don’t really know what all these signals from my co worker means. Going back to the question, ” Am I happy?” I do not really thought about this because I do not rely my happiness to my husband alone. Sometimes I feel like I am looking for something. Or not sure anymore if I am really happy in my marriage since I got all this attention from my co worker. Maybe he was just being nice. He is nice to all his co workers. But I always feel that he keeps letting his presence be aware by me. Or maybe it is just me and misinterpreting things.