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  • April 20, 2015 at 7:32 pm #75603
    juss
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    Recently I’ve started communicating with someone (professional) and feel very drawn to them. A very intense spiritual attraction, not so much physical. I am repressing my feelings as they are in a relationship, and I don’t believe in messing with another person’s mate (highly distasteful and disrespectful). I don’t want a relationship so the whole situation is weird, and we are in a position to communicate daily. I’m lost as to what to do and really don’t want it to affect work.

    April 21, 2015 at 3:50 am #75626
    Will
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    How long are you going to be in professional contact with this person? If it’s just for a few months, just keep your mouth shut and keep things professional.

    If he’s a permanent addition to your professional contacts, you should seriously consider what it’s going to take for you to get over him. I have heard of cases where this sort of thing got rather out of hand. Don’t repress your feelings, feel them, welcome them, appreciate the special person that has entered your life – just don’t communicate them to him. You can enjoy an impossible crush just for what it is, sometimes.

    Good luck.

    April 21, 2015 at 4:43 am #75629
    juss
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    Very true. We’ll be in contact for some time, and I enjoy the work. I’m just going to take this advice and keep to myself on this issue.

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