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  • December 15, 2014 at 2:05 pm #69291
    Hamidreza
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    Is it fair to leave someone who love you more than everyone because of you don’t know sure about your future and don’t know can you bring happiness for her in her life or not?
    Maybe she can be happier or have a better life without you?
    Is it fair to leave her alone? Won’t you feel guilty about it?
    In my opinion, it isn’t fair but what can I do???
    I don’t want to hurt her feelings and disappoint her?
    I love her so much, I love her more than everything. I don’t know what should I do?
    Please help me…
    English isn’t my first language, so please excuse any mistakes. I’m working on improving my English.

    Thanks a lot

    • This topic was modified 9 years, 4 months ago by Hamidreza.
    December 15, 2014 at 2:37 pm #69294
    Rock Banana
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    Why do you think she might have a better life without you? Has she said that?

    You need to become comfortable with leading your own life. You need to become more independent, to have your own values and beliefs.

    You do not need to make anybody happy. If you want to stay in the relationship then stay, if you want to leave then leave. Of course you don’t want her to be upset, but if you don’t like the relationship any more, then it’s more kind to end it than to keep it going.

    If you do like the relationship, then why are you making this post?

    Also: there is nothing to feel guilty about. Your needs and desires are just as important as anybody else’s – in fact they are even more important in your own life.

    December 15, 2014 at 2:50 pm #69295
    Anne
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    Nobody is sure of their future, and nobody can be sure of whether they will bring happiness to another person. If you don’t feel able to be in a relationship right now, because your uncertain future is causing YOU distress, then it is fair to leave the relationship. Otherwise, let her make her own decision about whether you bring her happiness or not 🙂

    December 16, 2014 at 12:09 am #69322
    Maya
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    Hi
    if u love her truly…tell her..let her decide what she wants.

    December 16, 2014 at 6:54 am #69330
    Hamidreza
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    Hi, Rock Banana
    Thank you for your response. No she didn’t say that. Sometime I think I can’t came true her wishes, and I don’t want to waste her time. And sometimes I’m sure about myself…
    I’m making this post because I wasn’t sure that I took a good decision and I wanted to somebody say his/her opinion about this.

    Good Luck

    • This reply was modified 9 years, 4 months ago by Hamidreza.
    • This reply was modified 9 years, 4 months ago by Hamidreza.
    December 16, 2014 at 7:20 am #69333
    Hamidreza
    Participant

    Hi, Anne
    Thank you for your response. Yes, I completely agree with you. I’ll remember everything you said. I needed hear this 🙂

    Good Luck

    December 16, 2014 at 7:44 am #69336
    Hamidreza
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    Hi, Maya2
    Thank you for your response. Yes I love her truly. I told her and now I am calm down 🙂
    There was a few problem when I told her but isn’t important.
    I took it hard this problem…

    Good Luck

    December 16, 2014 at 7:50 am #69338
    Hamidreza
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    I appreciate that for your helping.
    I wish best for all of you 🙂
    Thank you

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