Dear sensitiveandtrying:

I see. When he leaves you waiting for him, not showing up as planned, that is definitely mistreating you. He also lied to you as the reason he showed up HOURS later. If what he tells you is cruel than that is mistreating you as well. Silence treatments as well? And he never takes responsibility for his actions, claiming you caused him to behave a certain way?

If you mentioned any of these things in your original post, my goodness, I missed a lot!

Then to the title of your thread: “Unsure if I should let go?” it seems like Let Go. Too bad you were so excited about the nature of your relationship at first, as if you met in a past life, being able to finish each other’s sentences. Too bad it didn’t proceed to be something as wonderful as you hoped.

It is also too bad your mother suffered from bipolar disorder. I am sure you suffered a lot from her behavior before she was treated, at the least.

Please share more, if you’d like.

anita