Dear amde20:

I wish you didn’t beat yourself up over 30 seconds that you stopped. Do you beat yourself for any imperfection?

You are only human, imperfect by design. Mistakes will always be made. This couldn’t have been the first and it will not be the last. You lead your life the best you can, prepare the best you can, evaluate situations, learn from mistakes… and minimize future mistakes.

Beating yourself up for being imperfect, something you can’t help being, is a bigger mistake than any. That rubbing of 30 seconds was half a minute long mistake. But you beating yourself up is a mistake lasting … how long?

Again, do you beat yourself up for any imperfections? Any mistake you make? Or is this a worse mistake because it was of a sexual nature?

anita