Dear wingedmind:

What you are saying is that when you feel attached to a guy, and you quickly do, you get this rush in your brain to quickly solidify the attachment, make it secure via sex, marriage and baby. You fear losing the guy and you rush, in your thinking, to prevent losing him.

If you look at the history of your attachment to your parent/s, insight into that will help with your current challenge.

Would you like to examine that history here?

anita