Dear nicwhips:

yes, the middle ground: instead of breaking up, simply take a break until the session. When we get distressed, we tend to look for all-or-nothing solutions. Since most of your trouble with your boyfriend happen in between the times you are physically together, eliminate and when you can, limit calls/ texts time wise.

anita

* Dear jazdon: would you like to start a new thread with your challenge? If you click FORUMS above, then choose a CATEGORY (“relationships” in your case, could be), then go down that page for the empty box for your thread. I would like to reply there.