I strongly agree with HippieChick–it does you no good to compare your life to others around you. Those people who appear to have it all together are probably struggling themselves, though to the world they appear to have everything under control. You have plenty to be thankful for right now–you are able to stay with your mom, you are working and learning in a field that interests you, and you have the mental and physical strength to put your all into it.

You could definitely use the support of people who can be a positive influence–your mom, for one. Is she supportive of your goals? Do you have friends around you who can encourage you? You don’t need to be married or have a romantic partner to receive the love and support of others.

Things won’t always be this hard. Your hard work and perseverance will pay off.