Thank you so much for replying. I am reeling inside my brain. He is very much all talk. He would say things like “I have big plans this weekend”. When in reality he had no plans at all. I asked him why he didn’t follow through all the times. If it was money or if he was questioning his feelings, etc. He said No, that it was “all him”. Procrastinating, I suppose.
He is 38 and never married. I am 37 and was married for 12 years. My ex husband left to marry his secretary (very cliche). He has been in 2 long term relationships (over 7 years each).
I thought this would be different. He always tells me that he’s so different in our relationship. Much more open and all he wants is to be a family.
Unfortunately his actions never match his words.