Anita,

The first part of your answer, was that to me or her? I haven’t started dating yet or anything. In fact, I like being single right now. It’s not bad. I’d rather be where I am, and deal with what I’ve been through then where she is. I don’t think she’s grown as much as I have personally. I tend to believe being single for a while is good. If you’re happy being alone you’ll be happy being with someone also. Which is where I’m getting.

And you’re right about the giving up. I guess I should just drop everyone who’s hurting me. Like you said, maybe I’ll figure it out in therapy.

Andy.