Dear Andy:

The first part of my last post was for you, responding to you stating that you are angry at her (“my feeling of vengeance. Like I can’t describe it. It’s like I feel like karma..) When you want karma for another, or vengeance, it means you are angry at that person.

But it is true to her as well and to anyone on the face of this earth- when hurt by someone, it is natural to want to hurt that person back.

As to dropping everyone who is hurting you- yes, that will be a good thing. Problem is when a parent hurts a child, the child can’ drop the parent and so, the child turns a blind eye, or an almost blind eye to reality. And carrying this type of blindness, without healing, the now adult takes abuse from others thinking it is normal.

Hope therapy does work for you and do post anytime!

anita