Dear helen123:

No, no… the universe is not punishing you. I am sure of that. And that man was not your soulmate. I am sure of that too because for one, I don’t believe in soulmates. We can write back and forth on why your relationships haven’t worked out, and we can find the reasons. The reason is NOT some entity (Universe/ God) punishing you.

You gave your money at the time to the guy and to his parents and did not get it back, even after he married. Not only that, but they wanted you/ your parents to pay for a BIG wedding, at the time. He sided with his parents demanding a big wedding, and fought with you over it, as I understand it. All this while your parents where not well off financially.

When you regret having ended that relationship long ago, does that mean you regret not coming up with the money for the big wedding they wanted? Do you regret not pressuring your parents to come up with the money?

anita