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Dear chris:
In those online dating things, do you post a profile, a description of you and what you are looking for?
An example of (part of a)profile you can come up with is:
My name is chris, 23. I believe there is no greater experience than to have someone who cares. I am employed, working X hours per week. Outside of work I spend my time watching TV, reading… but I would very much prefer to spend my time instead in the company of young woman, taking walks together hand in hand, talking about anything, everything or nothing at all.
This would be more interesting that the one line you came up with in your original post. If you are limited to one line, you can make it more interesting (and truthful), using your own words.
But there is the other part of your posts, the hurt of rejection that you experienced, that would make it very difficult for you to handle the stress that comes with online dating and dating in general, because there is always waiting and most women on a dating site will ignore or reject you. The thing is you only need ONE. So the question is, can you handle the rejection by MOST so to get to just the ONE? And then, can you be patient with the one, not expecting instant love and dedication?
anita