Dear afaidofeveryone:

As to your second post, regarding your resolution about drinking, I would like to suggest an adjustment to it: no going out at all without your boyfriend to a bar or an establishment where alcohol is served and where hookup possibilities exist.

It is a good thing your boyfriend forgave you and trusts you. It is not your fault that you kissed a man that night, if you did. It is your fault that you drank that night in a place where hookups are part of the scene, knowing you have blackout experiences where in the past you were not aware of what happened.

Your resolution to limit your drinking wouldn’t satisfy me, if I was your boyfriend.

anita