Dear chris:

My suggestion regarding your profile was an example type suggestion. You choose what feels right for you. My suggestion is that you share something personal in your profile as well as in other communications with the women who answer you. Share something true and personal about you and that will be attractive to me, if I was to read your written (and other) communication. If you bring nothing personal to the table, it is more likely that no one will join you at the table.

Regarding the girl that recently contacted you, if you respond to her it will be an opportunity for you to practice being patient with not getting instant results. If you can do that, reply to her. If you can’t- don’t. You need to be respectful of her, not abusive, not reactive abusively to your anger. If you can maintain such respect even and especially when she doesn’t fall in love with you, or if she doesn’t fall in love with you as fast as you’d like, then reply to her.

Post again, anytime.

anita