Dear xenopustex:

I see your point about finances and dating, and you driving the same car means to me you indeed don’t like to show off and maybe you are not very materialistic, maybe a bit frugal, I don’t know. Be the person you are, according to the values you hold dear. What I suggested when mentioning the attraction to lots of women is that it is reality. In real life you are possessing a big attraction to a lot of women. If you didn’t think much about this in the past, it is something to think about and be aware of. I always promote seeing more and more of what there is to see, of reality.

Regarding your last comment about it being refreshing to see somebody with a sense of direction, you are referring to the 27 year old? If so, and her being so attractive, why… this is a reason to ask her for a coffee date or a brunch date in an outdoors coffee house or restaurant on a relaxed Saturday or Sunday, isn’t it? In the late morning/ day time (something casual, less intimidating than the more suggestive of a date at night time)?

anita