Sorry for so long to write back. Been busy.
I learned more about the gal I had been considering. She had just gotten out of a relationship with a guy who wanted to enter into a bigamous relationship. At the time, she did not know of the wife and family back home. She also hadn’t know at the time that he had cheated on her with a local woman. I remember her talking about not liking the philosophy of the locals about relationships/families being man and woman. Wondering if she is kind of giving up on men.

Long story short, I think that there are a lot of issues. Pretty obvious that she got used for sex. This does explain a great deal of her apparent beliefs. She has become extremely moody and depressed after the whole asking to date thing.

Will look back more at my posts.