Hi confusedone,

Aside from the deal breaker of cheating, here’s the thing: The age difference.

Now, I can talk because there is a vast age difference between me and my DH.

The difference is I met him later and he’s the one older. If I were a boy and younger when I met him it wouldn’t have happened or it would have been a disaster.

You were way out of league when you met him (if I am reading the above correctly and am doing my math right). He was a college aged kid and you were of an age when most people have a house, job, kid, life. Now he is older, but you are still out of his league. He’s a young man who SHOULD go out, party, live the good life. Maybe he cheated on you because he subconsciously resents giving up his youth?

You need to be in a real relationship. Let him grow up.

Blessings,

Inky