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Hey again tmeinke301,
You know better than anyone what’s right for you. Just don’t ever feel like you have to be in a relationship because you are ‘behind’ in some way. You’re not. People get divorced all the time, no matter how many relationships they’ve had. And so what if it’s your first relationship and you’re over 30? Actually that’s more of a reason to postpone. Do you know the kind of woman you want to be in a relationship? Are you that woman? And don’t you want to see what’s out there? I know that’s easier said than done. But just please know every relationship is different and you should never settle for less than what you deserve.
Just make sure you’re going to go through with the marriage for the right reasons. Being over 30 shouldn’t be one of them–there is life after 30! And it’s amazing. And most of all, think about what matters to you–really matters to you. And see if this guy fits the bill. If he doesn’t, have faith that there IS someone out there who will.
Take care 🙂
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