Hi Anita,

I don’t understand how its a love relationship when he keeps pushing me into other peoples arms for dates? And he finds dates troublesome and time consuming. But how are we in a relationship?
I personally have never been in one, if I have they only lasted 2 months, he has had 5 relationships.

At first that’s what he would do, but if there was something wrong like an argument I’d always ask him to communicate, because I want to understand what he is feeling and why. So he has been opening up and communicating things better, I think ..or I’m hoping so. I try to stay the calm one, because theirs no point in getting all riled up, which I guess makes him less abrupt about it. We were arguing recently and he said “end of discussion”, I told him that it hurts every time he says that and it felt like he didn’t care how I felt, or let me explain myself properly. After that he opened up and told me what was wrong. Which is a great improvement!

I just wished he would stop pushing me away. I told him before that I just simply enjoy what we have, and enjoy being around him, and I dont need any title’s. He agreed, yet still pushes ne away. Although I haven’t said anything to him about it, I feel like it wouldn’t be right when he is probably thinking of his feelings for me.

Thank you so much for your help!
Jessica