Dear hangdo:

Luck has nothing much to do with it: when a young man is in your country for a vacation or a short visit, it is unlikely that a relationship will happen after the visit. It is possible, if the man is very shy, has a problem getting together with women in his own country. But for a sociable, confident-enough guy, it is simply unlikely and not a luck issue.

I am sorry you are disappointed. I understand. It seems to me that you are not interested in only an online-friendship relationship with him, is that so? Because it hurts you to see him with other girls?

You can ask him to block you from Facebook and yet continue communicating on your personal online account?

anita