Dear Ravi:

Bingo! This is it! If this message is true to you, if you feel at peace with it, then this is it. We have over 400 posts on this thread so I know something about your situation at this point and I strongly feel that this message has the greatest chance of any possible message, to get her to respond positively.

I don’t see a possible better message. Still, of course, no guarantees whatsoever. But I am excited if this is exactly the message you will be sending her. It is so very different than any message you sent her since March. Very different. This is a mature, clear thinking Ravi who takes responsibility, who is practical and knows what he wants and it is a Ravi who knows the basics of love! If I was her, I would answer.

But of course, I am not her. Let me know the moment you send it so I can count the hours with you. Hoping it will only be hours.

anita