Hi adriannalc,

I went “Uh-oh” when I read “Tinder”. That’s like trying to meet a neuro-surgeon at the local bar. Sure, you’ll meet “doctors” but not the real deal.

The other time I went “Uh-oh” is you contacting him to go on most of the dates. I dated someone like that. I felt like the man in the relationship! I dropped the rope and he complained that I never called him (after running into him, he would never actually pick up the phone).

And lastly, yes, at least he let you down gently. And there may not even be an ex. If he doesn’t contact you after a couple weeks that’s it then. He ended it with saying HE *MIGHT* have to contact you in a couple weeks. The ball is in his court. Let it lay there.

Best,

Inky