Dear plainsong:

From re-reading much of your previous thread and this one, I can see that you are stuck in the past, heavy duty stuck there, in that past relationship with that man. Seems like you can’t let it go. You are obsessed with your co worker ending his affair with you and going back to his wife. You concluded it meant that you are unworthy.

And like you wrote in the post above: the “past is always the same”

Every day the past is your present. I used to be stuck as well, in the past or I should say: the past was stuck in my brain, playing over and over again with no resolution. So I understand. I’ve been there.

I am no longer stuck. It’s way better to finally be unstuck! Much recommended, if you can find a way to do that in your own life. I’ll be glad to share with you how I got unstuck, if you’d like. If you are interested in my sharing, I would need to ask you a few questions first. Let me know.

anita