Dear Natalija:

Reads to me like an excellent goal: to express disagreement and try to resolve a conflict before the conflict escalates and gets worse, as early as possible, really.

You wrote: ” Now I feel somehow forced to stay at the same job and same place because of the security…and this is something I was trying to avoid my whole life.”

I need to understand better what you mean by “this is something I was trying to avoid my whole life”- what is it you were trying to avoid your whole life? Be as specific as you can..

anita