And remember, complete separation is just a pause button on the relationship, a year, 2 years, 5 years. You will still have the same impression of the relationship as you did when you decided to get some space. It hasn’t addressed any of the issues that are causing your unhappiness. The relationship will still end up back on the same course that led you to escape. Both of you need to work towards a different course, one that gives both of your lives fulfillment.