Dear Jonathan:

Did you complete your apprenticeship? And you are not making enough money to move out of your grandparents?

How do you see a life-of-your-own: are you living with roommates/ alone/ with a partner? Where are you living: city/ country? How do you earn money? How do you otherwise occupy your time…?

anita

Dear Jonathan:

For funding for level 3, can you get another type of job, so to make money for level 3 funding?

anita

Dear Jonathan:

So your plan to continue to level 3 cannot proceed and you are stuck between level 2 and level 3.

That was the plan. Now you need plan B. Something else. When you are set to follow one plan and cannot proceed, that is too bad. I wish you could proceed with plan A. Unfortunately, at this time, you can not. It is not the end of the world; a disappointment, but not a disaster. Get the rest that you need, calm down best you can, and when you have what I call a fresh brain: one that is rested, think, gather information and form a Plan B.

Write down your goals: what life-on-your-own looks like for you and what you need to do to make it possible. Come up with possibilities of what you can do to make living on your own possible for you.

anita

Dear Anonymous:

If it helps, post here anytime and I will respond; maybe others will as well. That may make life less lonely while you proceed with your plan to keep working until you have enough money to move out.

anita