Dear Anita,

I have started seeing the reality as it is, and understood that, people always change, and I need to let go of certain things and beliefs about people, if i have to be peaceful, if not happy… and I have told her straight away, that I can’t take either her abuse nor her emotional outbursts, since she thinks, I’m avoiding and isolating her thinking that, she is more inclined towards her new found relationships and not towards me and I was totally wrong in this(according to her). She blazed out, blasted me with verbal abuse, saying that, this was a fake relationship, and she will not be believing me anymore for anything. So, I told her, I’m cutting all contacts and ties with her and walked away!!! I feel a sense of peace and freeness, but still my mind is wandering as to, whatever i have done is right or wrong? may be I should’ve given it an another chance?? but, then, I felt there is no use, since she is not the same person anymore, and I can waste my life anymore, trying to get into her life and to take care of her.. was I right in doing this? What is your insight on this?