Dear blkhwkdwn1:

I like the message you texted her (your post before the most recent). And I like it that she is okay with the fact that you lied at the time but soon enough, let her know that you did. And she said she wants to be your friend for life.

You want to disappear from Facebook, social media, and from here? I hope you post here anytime, if it helps. I will be glad to reply every time you post.

And you want to not have contact with her for a while, I understand. Attend counseling soon, that is your plan as I understand it.

Good work with communicating with her! You did it soon and I think it was a good choice on your part.

anita