Dear dreaming715:

When I wrote in my last post to you: “Will you be sharing with him then your fears and hopes and dreams, sadness and frustrations..” I didn’t mean to ask him about his past love relationships, I meant you sharing about yourself. So instead of asking “if HE had been in love before” and instead of asking: “YOU said you were in a two-year-long relationship. Was that the relationship where YOU were in love?” sharing about you would be something like: “I (the pronoun is I, not You) sometimes get scared that you don’t really like me, like when I wore my fall outfit yesterday and you said I overdressed. I was so happy to wear my Fall outfit for the first time this season, was hoping you would like it…”

anita