Dear chanel:

Reads to me that it would be a better choice for you not to stay in touch with him. Being in touch with him meant so far that you are stuck texting him about how depressed you are over the ending of the relationship with him. When you share that with him, you are in affect continuing the relationship. He is not a friend with whom you are talking about ANOTHER person, ex boyfriend. He is one and the same. So in essence, the relationship you want to end is still going on.

anita