Dear Anya:

I am sorry, Anya, but … no, it is not possible. Two things are not possible:

1) It is not possible for you to be mistake-free, to act perfectly- it is not possible for any human being.

2) It is not possible to make a person stop abusing you by becoming the person you think he wants you to be. He abuses you because he feels like it, not because you deserve it. He abuses you because he is cruel, not because you are imperfect, too sensitive or cry too much.

— so positive affirmations so to be perfect are not going to make him stop abusing you. The only way to make him stop abusing you is to cut any and all contact with him.

Post again, anytime.

anita