Dear grahamcracker:

My questions, if you are interested in examining the topic further:

You don’t care about your job: does that mean you are financially able to end your employment and move Home (your desired location)?

You are unhappy with your marriage as it now stands. Are you willing to end it?

If you still hope to fix your marriage, how can that be done? And will she be willing to relocate with you?

Regarding your adult disabled son, why is it not possible for him to relocate?

anita