* Dear Annagramma: thank you for your assertion. I appreciate it very much.

Dear Tannhauser:

Indeed I am a member here, just like you are. Not an authority figure of any kind. If your apology above is directed to me as well, then I accept it and wish you well too.

If I may say so, I think your last post makes sense: if you can’t change it, accept it. If it is a higher force that is responsible for your physical going-ons, then maybe that higher force has a higher purpose. Causing you distress for no higher goal would be an act of nothing but sadism. I consider sadism an act of a … lower force, not a higher force.

anita