Dear NeedHelp:

My advice is that you do not sacrifice your life. Compromise it temporarily, maybe, but don’t sacrifice it. Keep your education going- maybe take a year break- but keep it going.

While your father is sick, you still have your feelings and it is okay to feel whatever it is that you feel. Your life is important at all times, even when your father is sick.

We all have sickness and death in our future. Make your life good for you- this is your first responsibility.

anita