Dear blkhwkdwn1:

So everyone is on the same page: one-to-one time in a quiet environment, coffee or a quiet meal together is best.

Regarding making her laugh- if you are referring to the women you made laugh during that last gig, it could very well be that they drank enough to laugh easily and that the music, the event put them in a light state of mind. Can be that your friend is uncomfortable sometimes with her digestion (the wheat problem) and is not inclined to laugh in her discomfort.

Plus, you don’t have to make her laugh so that she will like you; she already likes you.

I will be interested to know how the next club event goes for you, how the drink-wait-drink-wait-wait goes for you as well as the flirting with women.

anita