Hi Sam,

There’s no ideal time to be in a relationship. My daughter has had a boyfriend for over a year and will be applying to grad school next year. Will she be with the BF? Who knows? Where will she end up? Who knows? Where will the BF get a job as he’s not going to grad school? It’s a mystery! Does this mean they should break up now? That would be silly.

I say live as fully in the present as you can.

That said, you are still relatively free. Don’t text the guy or chase him. Keep it casual. But enjoy him when he’s around.

Best,

Inky