Anita, I followed your advice. I contacted my ex, telling him I was gonna be in his state for the holidays and he immediately told me that he misses me so much and was just waiting for the month to end so he could contacted me again (I told him not to contact me till December so I can get over him) and of course we got together and talked and got to the conclusion that we love each other’s company and our conversations but u fortunately we can’t be together but maybe one day we will be. Thing is he is texting me everyday like usual again from good morning till good night, even though we said we will take things slowly and see what happens. I’m not complaining though, I love that we’re talking again and have him in my life. I will be careful when I make a decision from now on anand pay attention to his behavior before I mamake any final decision about us. So far I’m enjoying it :). Thanks again and good luck to everyone!!