Dear slider:

In September this year you described your wife as a bully. You wrote: “she is very explosive and critical. and these things shut me up. and i can’t get myself to open up” You also wrote that you find it very difficult to stand up to her, that you are afraid of her, that she threatened you to prevent seeing your daughter if you separated from her.

You are not dealing with a love-starved woman who you did injustice to. You are dealing with an abusive woman who has been harming you for a long time.

So, Now what?

anita