Hi Wohochi,
I would take Anita’s advice with a pinch of salt – all people can be mean at times.
If she wants to get back with you and is happy to ditch the other guy then happy days.
Otherwise, you’re putting this girl to high up in your expectations.
The image in your head will probably not match expectation, especially if she’s treating you bad.
Just keep putting yourself out there, eventually you will find a girl that you will be able to see yourself with.