Hi Beautiful people,
So, I thought I should write something about what I have learned through my journey of painful events like disappointments in life breakup, betrayal from friends etc. These events were learning experiences, they were painful but not BAD. Why they weren’t bad? Because they taught me about life.
Don’t believe what people say but look at their actions People B.S. , whether its your friends or your love interest. Listen to what they say but pay more attention to their actions. Don’t just blindly believe their words because you are so attracted or in love with them, look what they are doing.
You will be able to clearly see whether you should want to be with this person or not (goes for friends or lover). And if you see that these people aren’t compatible then take the courage to do what’s right for you. This will save you from wasting your energy, time and having to put with disappointments and heartbreaks.
Don’t get blinded by your desire, try to see a bigger picture. If such incompatible person ( non caring, selfish, emotionally unavailable, unkind, manipulative, cold etc. ) exists in your life then be courageous to face your pain, insecurity, uncertainty and let them go.
And if they continue to come in your life again, ask yourself where you going wrong? Why you are not able to filter them ? Where are you mistaken?
Good luck
Brav3