Good advice from everyone! My two cents, and I’m going to keep it short and get to the point. 1) You’re paying him, don’t underestimate the importance of this. As was already said, he’s getting paid to be nice and to be supportive. Ever talk to your very friendly bartender after they get off work? 2) He’s not immune to chemistry. He’s a guy! He’s probably a professional, but that doesn’t mean he can’t also have his weak moments just like you. Close situations like this are naturally tempting for both parties. Forbidden fruit is powerful stuff. 3) Most important of all. Either find a new coach, or open your mouth and ask what gives? Ask him if he’s interested in you and if so what is the next step? You can use your own words and your clever mind to figure out what to say exactly, but you’ve got to break the ice (this will help you to grow as well and teach you to deal with situations like this in the future). Either that or just continue to feel the pain of his touch that you will never get to really experience without a lot of complexities that you really don’t want to get into. (remember, he has a girlfriend). Hope that helps. Oh one other thing 4) Date someone! Anyone! You’re way to obsessed about this and you need to be distracted with something healthier. Get out there and date!!!!